I was once told that it may take yrs until you REALLY know somebody.
The ppl I consider BESTFRIENDS, are just that, and I know them well, but
it never seizes to amaze me how much I learn about them each time we
interact with one another. And then, to an extent, ppl at my age do
change alot, yet, to an extent. It's just funny to me how that can be.
One of my homeboys got married. Halfway in my mind I felt like we were close. But really, we COULD HAVE gotten close. We weren't even halfway there. Now, when he told me he was getting married at the VERY last minute, and I wasn't invited, i was a little taken aback. "Wow, for real tho?!" i thought to myself. His now wife his not very fond of me, But that's another story. The day before his wedding, I sent my congratulation text along with:
One of my homeboys got married. Halfway in my mind I felt like we were close. But really, we COULD HAVE gotten close. We weren't even halfway there. Now, when he told me he was getting married at the VERY last minute, and I wasn't invited, i was a little taken aback. "Wow, for real tho?!" i thought to myself. His now wife his not very fond of me, But that's another story. The day before his wedding, I sent my congratulation text along with:
ME: "I still can't believe you're getting
married...
HIM:"y can't u beleave it?"
(he can't spell worth a
damn lol)
ME: "well u always seemed to be against marriage"
HIM"never was against it, but u only got to know 10% of me."
Mane! Was he
right tho. As hard as it was to hear, it was true. He was totally right.
After that, I have done and am doing alot of thinking of the ppl I have
close bonds with. Those I call bff. That's alot of ppl to get to know,
and I don't even mind that part. It's crazy how u think u know someone,
and then they amaze with new facts about themselves and who they REALLY
are. I love my bff's tho. All my friends, I wouldn't trade them for the
anything in the world. Even those that have come in and out my life,
I'm. Thankful for those as well. They taught me things.
Just when u think u know someone....
Just when u think u know someone....
NOTE: THIS MESSAGE ISN'T GEARED TOWARD ANY ONE PERSON NOR IS IT MEANT TO BE NEGATIVE. JUST MY THOUGHTS!